We needed a distraction. She needed a distraction. Don't think about those Things. The Things that keep us all awake at night, lying in our beds, aware of our own hearts, beating a rhythm of the Unknown, as our breaths whisper of what-ifs. For one day, for one shining enormous day we were going to celebrate.
And celebrate we did.
Celebrate the way that Love can sometimes carry us, and how this happens sometimes when we need it to the most.

Celebrate how time is constant, yet changing always. How in this place of History, a white limousine makes a temporary home, and how tiny specs of bright green grass will fall onto the carpeting, how we will spill our orange juice just a little, how barely visible bubbles will rise up into the bridge of our nose and tickle us silently, and how this makes us Smile.
Celebrate the sound her footsteps make as she runs across flickering afternoon shadows dancing unnoticeable below her.
How we look down with our eyes and catch the gaze of Unfiltered Joy, of Pure Innocence and think to ourselves that is Mine. All mine.
Celebrate how Light reflects from Everything so that we can see it.
Celebrate All of us coming together, doing together, moving together against a backdrop built from trees and clouds, saltwater and sunsets.
Celebrate how all at once, your children rise to the occasion and beam pride and reflection and thoughtfulness and emotion and how innately beautiful this is.
Celebrate how even the smallest Pieces, the lonliest Things, are really giant memories for Us to keep.
How a Mother can Love a child, and how without a word uttered, she can love and be loved forever and always. 
Celebrate the power of a moment frozen, a piece of time treasured, singular seconds created for the sole purpose of remembering them, swimming in them, holding onto them, getting Lost in them.
Celebrate Life's Beautiful Distractions.~
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Thank you for sharing this wedding with us. I have been keeping my fingers crossed that you would. What a beautiful, memorable day. Your family shines - all of them. The love is palpable. The joy destroys the sorrow. And you can live in that moment and love it and appreciate it and re-live it. Forever. When your heart is heavy, you can call this day up and I hope it fills your heart with joy every single time.
ReplyDeleteIt was such a beautiful day. In fact, the weather was saying that Saturday would be a bit rainy in the afternoon, but it never even came close to that. It was absolutely gorgeous.
DeleteSome weird shit happened, too, involving the wind picking up, I mean REALLY picking up for about three long seconds, where the veil was almost blown completely off. More than a regular beach wind. There seemed to be one seagull in particular that was just hanging out, standing up near where the ceremony was, just standing there in the sand all fat and stoic.
At one point, there was a group of them that came and flew about among us, and I thought to myself, someone on this beach MUST be feeding these guys...but no one was, and as quick as the wind came and went so did this group of seagulls, all except for that one, who lingered around us all day, he is actually in the pic at the top of this post.
I couldn't NOT share this wedding, but it was a bit tricky editing the pics so everone would be more or less anonymous and still have a picture when I was done.
I love "when your heart is heavy, you can call this day up"...
Thanks for reading, as always!
The wind picking up and the seagulls were a sign. You need to believe in signs in this lifetime. They are all around us waiting to be noticed. Good job on the editing and you looked fabulous.
ReplyDeleteI am thinking at least one of those things was a sign from my Grandmother, who passed away a year ago October 14th...
DeleteAnd you know I have "issues" like Body Dysmorphia, so thank you very much for your compliment.
Beautiful. From the wedding itself via the pictures to the writing here.
ReplyDeleteWhen you said plan a wedding in seven days, I thought--a family gathering, a small celebration. When I saw the pics on Instagram, I realized it was a beautiful beach wedding with lots of guests and the works! How incredibly busy you must have been, and what a great thing you guys accomplished! I, too, was looking forward to this post.
What a perfect day it was. I am amazed at how you notice the small signs and write about them in such incredible ways. The pictures are so well done. They tell a poignant story, and will forever leave footprints in your memories. Thank you for sharing it with us! (I absolutely *adore* the pics of your children, and the very tiny ones of you :))
Oh, and Feedburner? So far so good. I am doing the 'wait and see' approach, too. I'm not going to fix something that's not broken yet. Because I am likely to mess the whole thing up. I'll watch your back! :)
DeleteI cannot believe it myself! In fact, all these days later and I am still thinking holy shit we did it about every two hours or so. 85 guests. Every single person invited I am pretty sure was there.
DeleteI am always noticing little things, I don't know why, but sometimes I think it is because when I was little, before anybody ( myself included ) knew how bad my eyesight was, I could only see things that were very, very, very close to me. I never saw "the big picture", things that were further away from me were blurred and colorful, but indistinguishable. Hence, Life, Oddly Detailed. :-)
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